Sunday, September 28, 2025

Artnotes: Come for Dinner!

 

Red Tree   Laurie Fox Pessemier  Acrylic on large paper (arrives rolled)  56 x 36"  142 x 92cm  375.00
Villa Rotunda   Blair Pessemier  Acrylic/canvas panel   8  x 12"  20 x 30cm  350.00
Fir Tree in our Garden  Laurie Fox Pessemier  Acrylic on large paper (arrives rolled)  56 x 36"  142 x 92cm  375.00
Morning Walk  Blair Pessemier  Acrylic/canvas   18  x 15"  46 x 38cm  425.00
Classic Bust  Blair Pessemier  Acrylic/canvas   18  x 15"  46 x 38cm  425.00

A young Moroccan man appeared at our gate on Thursday, selling items I can only describe as oddball:  string-mop heads; cigarette lighters; wet wipes, aragon scented; socks and dusting rags.   Berlino greeted him warmly, which is an unusual reaction to an itinerant salesman, so I went out and had a jaw.

He started showing me things, and then he started to cry.  I selected a mop head and a handful dust rags.   He apologized, saying he hadn’t slept the night before – worrying about Ga za.  “Children,” he cried, “who have never even lived, starved to death or killed by bombs.”  I tried to comfort him, but knew he just had to say what he felt.  He told me he was twenty-five, and just couldn’t bear the thought of war.  I told him war was just for soldiers and he said no, it’s not for anyone.  He had been living in Bergamo, 100 miles north of here, and comes down with a group of North African immigrants to sell things door-to-door.  He and his fellow peddlers sleep in the car.   I gave him a large bag of shelled walnuts, and added three pairs of socks to my stash.  I poured him a glass of water and paid twenty euros for my purchases.

It was that kind of bittersweet week for us.   We did some favors for friends, and drove around a lot.  To be able to give in friendship is a big honor, and I feel happy when I help out.  It is never exactly like we plan, there are odd twists, negative and positive.   On one escapade, we went to a Moroccan store, where we bought rice.  “This is the rice my family eats,” the chubby Moroccan told us.  “Well, it must be good then,” I say.  Blair notices the soft Moroccan flat bread, like we used to buy in Paris. We take two pieces, and five kilos of rice.  
Our water heater/furnace has been acting up.  A repairman, unkind, shows up and admonishes us for not adding salt to the water “sweetener”.  In fact we should have been dosing it at least once a month, and this is the first time in three years (who knew?).  A friend comes by and tells me I am beautiful.  We go out to dinner with a friend we love, and his pretty, un-informed wife, who expounded on American politics.  It was hard to behave.    
The best thing that happened to us this week was the gift of a slicer, the big motor-driven kind for slicing prosciutto and cheese.   I was shocked, THRILLED in fact.  Thank you, thank you, Santo!  I have been wanting a slicer forever, but they are prohibitively expensive.  I have a new recipe for thinly sliced octopus, gleaned from our recent trip to Vicenza.  I’ll improve my vitello tonnato.  Hip hip hooray: I’ll invite you to dinner.   
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